"Honey...Is there something you want to tell me?"
It must be National Get Busted For Doing Porno Week this week. Hot on the post of the girl who asked me to remove her content, a name I dare not mention then another girl pops up, again another name I am not at liberty to mention because this time has nothing to do with me whatsoever in that her mother found out she had done hard core porn.
You can imagine that she was none too impressed.
Imagine that? Being a parent to find out your little girl has grown up to performing sex acts with different people (insert words such as sick, sleazy, sordid to make yourselves feel better) and multiple partners for a living? Well in truth it isnt as bad as you might think but I can understand it from the parents point of view.
As far as I'm concerned, the decision to doing porn is an adult one and there comes a time when every parent has to let go of the apron strings and let their children grow up to make their own decisions in life. Sure, most parents wouldnt want their kids doing porn for a living. Me either and I am a parent to two children. So why the double standards?
Well I happen to know unless you surround yourself with good people that this business can be a horrible one to be in for many reasons. The sexual health reason, the “there is no long term future with a pension reason, the inability to find a life partner who will take you serious reason etc”, in fact I can think of many reasons but the biggest reason is societies double standards towards it.
This is perhaps the singular biggest reason I have stuck around in it for so long and the fact I have met some very interesting people that has made it a way of life for me now. Its not all doom and gloom and there is never a dull moment either thats for sure.
I felt compelled to revisit this again when the story broke of another model I have never shot, being busted for appearing many times on another website. My question would be to those who lie about ever having done it or doing it for a living is: How the hell do you expect never to get busted for doing porn?
I could understand if it was a private video made with your boyfriend but the internet being what it is has a way of unearthing those skeletons from the past for all and sundry to see.
Being young and naive doesnt cut it. This is an admission that you lack foresight so if you cont care about your future why do you regret doing what you did in the past?
I have never provided anyone with a guarantee that people they know will ever find out. How can I? I dont know who they know. So how do girls think they can do this and expect no one to ever see it when it is ultimately made for public (albeit adult) consumption is beyond my scope of understanding.
All I can say in consolation is, if you do go ahead with it and decide porn is the thing for you for whatever personal reason, then make sure you dont just do it for the money and you do it because you want to do it and if you do it to do it really well because if you do it badly, its worse to be remembered for being bad than being very good at it where people are most likely going to feel guilty for admitting seeing you than laughing at you for being crap.
Capisce? Still confused?
Wanna make a porno?
Heres a funny story from back in the day.
I was on a porno shoot with two girls, not fair to mention their names, except to say they were both recognised for their extensive body of hard core work. i can name the guys as Karl and Lee Henshaw though and my porn movie making buddy/ tog on the job John “Johnny Rebel” Mason were shooting an anal dp movie in Milton Keynes at the models home when we heard a key in the door, the models face went from exquisite pleasure from fucking to abject terror and she rushed butt naked to the door covering her nakedness with something like a tea towel or something.
There was the sound of a chain on the door and much hushed talking before the male voice outside said “Who you got in there?”
The model rushed back in and told John, Lee and Karl with their butt naked selves, dicks still rigid and ready to go into her bedroom and for the other model (Ok it was Layla Jade) to wait there with me.
Why me? Why couldnt I be the one to hide in the room with two naked men still stroking hard cocks ready to complete the scene? Ok better it be John then. Its quite obvious this had to appear like I was shooting a girl/girl scene. Thankfully the fella never came in and left to a torrent of abuse screaming: “Slag! You fucking whore!” etc which left the model emotionally stricken and in tears.
I was panicking that I wasnt going to complete the scene and not get paid for the shoot we were shooting for a client. I mean how is a girl going to do an anal and dp scene if she is an emotional wreck?
Much cuddles later, we called for time out and ordered a pizza as the girls sat around naked and the blokes wore towels around their modesty chomping down food when I asked about the bloke who was her boyfriend to find out they had split with her recently but he still had a key to the flat
He had no idea she had been doing porn despite the fact she was doing it for a year already and even went to work in the US where she became as legendary for her anal and dp scenes. Therefore, how the hell did she think he was never going to find out???
The thing about lies is the truth will always come out before long and the outcome is never pleasant. especially if the relationship was founded on lies. So girls…Before you get into a long term relationship, do the right thing and tell your boyfriend because if he doesnt find out, he probably has mates or bothers of his mates or guys at the local pub who will tell him and guys, if you find out, dont blame me man.
This is just a job and what I do. So dont take it personal.
It was just business. By the way we did complete that scene and it was fucking awesome. Shame its not on this site though. The client said it was the best anal dp scene we ever shot for him too.
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